"The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.” - Albert Einstein
Regardless of your age, if you are breathing, than you are always ready for change. It might be in a relationship, career, an old habit, anger issue, or something that is really affecting your life. I want you to ask yourself, ‘Everything I have come to know in the last 18, 22, 45 or even 65 years, what impact has it had in this particular area of my life? Am I happy where I am? Have I attained fulfillment? Do I feel lost and confused? Now I want you to sit there and think back how many times you have asked yourself those same questions. Do you see a pattern with your previous answers and your current ones? Unfortunately most continue on that circular train track their whole life and are never able to implement real change. Firstly, they don’t build the belief system because they constantly remind themselves on why they think they can’t change, and secondly some people just don’t know how to approach it. It’s evident that we are always obtaining knowledge in this life, however learning requires rapid action. Now it seems a lot of us believe we are taking appropriate action yet still feel as if we have failed. This is why we must direct that energy in a way which is going to be effective and implement lasting change.
Society has made us believe that if we “change” then we are not being true to ourselves. There are two things that are neglected in this lie. They are- change is extremely powerful, but more importantly, it’s inevitable. Nothing remains the same. Every new moment, you are a new person, even physically. Not one single cell in your body has remained the same. This means we are always “becoming”. But what you are becoming depends on you. Essentially, something must change in order to grow, right? Whether it is financially, physically, emotionally or mentally, the same rule applies.Proper questioning is definitely the basis for directing change towards our immediate growth. It allows us to broaden the way we think and stop being be narrow minded to create a belief that “there is only one option.” We are constantly asking questions to ourselves; however we usually ask ones that result in answers that are of no real benefit and cause us to feel the same way. That usually results in creating the same experiences. Stay away from such questions, but ill give you the answers just this once…
Why can’t I do that?
Exactly, why cant you? Of course you can, I don’t think that person woke up one day and was 50kilos lighter, that couples relationship just sky rocketed for no real reason, or money just fell into that guys lap.
Why am I so unlucky?
There is no such thing as luck, as valuable information is found in every experience. We must also take sole accountability for our thoughts, words, and physical actions as they are the basis for creating things in our life.
Why does this always happen to me?
It doesn’t always happen to you, but when you think it does your mind will always tell you why you’re the victim. It doesn’t tell you that are also the perpetrator, because you aren’t letting it.
Why are all girls/guys the same?
They’re not all the same, your implying that you’re different by saying that. But how many people do you hear that from, so that means there is a lot of different people out there! It’s only the attitude of thinking all girls/guys are the same that they seem that way, because with that mindset you’re not giving them any other chance.
All people with money have screwed someone over to get there?
Have they really, or is that just an excuse in the face of fear, for living a life that is under what you know you deserve?
Why can’t I enjoy life like others?
Of course you can…you just choose not to everyday. See things for what they really are, not for how they appear in an instant. Dig deeper…
Why am I the only one faced with so many challenges in life?
That’s garbage and we all know it. Be honest with yourself, as I’m sure there are a lot more people worse off with a lot more challenges in their way. Are you really the only one, or are you feeling sorry for yourself and not making any changes to turn it around?
“When you change the way you think, you change the way you feel. When you change the way you feel, you change the way you act. When you change the way you act, you change your life. It starts by changing the way you…”
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